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Welcome to Down to Find Out, a column in which Nona Willis Aronowitz addresses your biggest questions about sex, dating, relationships, and all the gray areas in between. In our first installment, she answers a Teen Vogue editor's question about digital consent. Have a question for Nona? Send it to downtofindout gmail. Q: I want to send my partner nudesbut I'm nervous they might get into the wrong hands.
I don't want to be embarrassed by a private picture getting out, but I'm into the idea of sharing sexy pics. What should I do?
A: When I was 19, I took a picture of my breasts in the privacy of my college dorm room. So I just posed for myself. I turned on my computer, parted my lips, and snapped some topless pics. It felt silly, yet also kind of arousing and fun. A year later, sending those explicit images to an actual human felt like an act of generous vulnerability, like I was divulging a few sentences from my diary. My masturbatory photo shoot was before iPhones and Snapchat, before it was quite so common for interested admirers to ask for, much less expect, nude photos.
But a lot has changed in 15 years: Now, if you are texting with someone you like, sending nudes is unbelievably commonplace. Get very familiar with yourself. Pose in the mirror, caress your silhouette, know your naked angles. Sex philosopher adrienne maree brown, in her new book Pleasure Activismwrites that she took private photos and videos of her body as an act of radical self-acceptance. For now, these photos can be just for you.
First, you should know that whatever sexy pics you share should be on your own terms. Share them in the spirit of mutual trust and arousal, not because you feel you have to. And, of course, any naked picture should be solicited penis-havers, no surprise dick pics. So if you're doing this because naked sexting pics want to, and if you've determined the person you want to show them to is trustworthy, you can share your best photos with your partner IRL at first.
If your partner wants to be aroused by you from afar, you can start by sexting with words rather than photos. Instead, verbalizing my fantasies can allow some privacy and ambiguity while still experimenting with nascent desires.
Finally ready to send that selfie? So why am I not taking a hard line and insisting you never send nudes? But I also believe we should neutralize the power of those who hurt people simply because they participated in a completely usual sexual activity. Happily, that destructive power has already weakened. Just a decade or two ago, a naked photo especially of a woman could unilaterally ruin a career. Nowadays, people are contesting the idea that nudes should be grounds for a scandal at all. When a fake naked selfie popped up online of Rep.
Happy sexting! Nona Willis Aronowitz is a writer, editor, and author who thinks a lot about love, sex, and history. She tweets at nona. Keywords Sexting nudes photo relationships dtfo.Naked sexting pics
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